Jenna Vivacora is an Enneagram 3 singer/songwriter currently based in Nashville. Her music uniquely integrates her nomadic life, multiethnic background, education at the US Naval Academy, subsequent chronic illness, and wide cross-cultural experiences, living in Central Asia, Turkey, and Germany.

Jenna (as Jenna Cox-Hadley) is the creator behind Wait for Her, an original musical about healing from sexual assault, as well as the composer for the musical Deirdre, an Irish legend reimagined.

She is currently creating an album about her time as a Sojourner.

Check out her single! See what part of the song stands out to you the most as you take a peek into the inner world of someone who’s an Enneagram 3.

Potential Lyrics

I failed before I even wake up

It's hard to say so don't interrupt

Emotionality when things are changing doesn't worry me

But when the dust nestles in, schedule me my meltdown week

Cause it’s all potential

Stencil my days to be monumental

Indenture my dreams with timelines that seem parental

Every day's like an opening scene

Crash course on the cast and the dream

Facing your fears is the way we live here

The future hits like a train every night

Running makeup proves that I tried

Indulgent though it seems to binge cookie dough and Schitt's Creek

Hey, if they can thrive, I can make a meal or two this week

It’s all potential

Stencil my days to be monumental

Indenture my dreams with timelines that seem parental

Every day's like an opening scene

Crash course on the cast and the dream

Facing your fears to live up to your potential

Stencil my days to be monumental

Indenture my dreams with timelines that seem parental

Every day's like an opening scene

Crash course on the cast and the dream

Facing your fears is the way we live here

When I sit in silence,

Doubt rings like tinnitus

This is my next frontier

It’s all potential

Maybe my days will be monumental

Tend to my dreams and live up to my potential

Stencil my days to be calm and restful

Tend to my dreams with options that feel celestial

Every day's still an opening scene

I'll savor the cast and the dream;

Don't let the fear be what it is to live here

Growth Steps for Enneagram 3s

Take time to sit in silence and solitude.

Do something that helps you to “fill the well” of energy and spark – be a kid again for a minute. Buy applesauce, a superhero figurine, go roller skating!

Growth Steps for Loved Ones of Type 3s

What stood out the most to you in the song lyrics?

What is one way for you to encourage and support your Type 3 loved one?

More about Jenna

When I say that I've moved a lot since I left home 10 years ago, I mean it. After my time at the Naval Academy, I lived in Kazakhstan, Turkey, Germany, Fort Benning, Wheaton, New York City, Nashville, and Fort Lauderdale, doing long distance on and off with my husband of 5 years.

I've been to countries that most people don't even know exist. How then do you describe yourself in a few words?

"Who, me? I'm a tri-racial, almost multi-lingual bartender with a bachelors in math, who tap dances and rollerskates, isn't afraid to eat horse, has mostly queer and autistic friends, is chronically ill, and could probably beat you up?"

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JOANNE B. KIM, LMFT

Joanne is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Brainspotting Practitioner in San Jose, CA. She helps people EXHAUSTED by anxiety, shame, and an allergic reaction to anger create VIBRANT relationships where they matter, too.

Many of her clients are:
(1) the highly responsible, conscientious, and empathic types
(2) Enneagram Type Ones, Twos, Fours, or Nines
(3) Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs)

The most common words spoken by those who’ve sat with Joanne:

“I thought it was just me. I’m NOT crazy!”

“I can finally figure out what to do with all these feelings!”